The different icon means that you're having delegations pointing out the subdomain to be kept as a zone on the server in the NS record of the delegation.
If the delegation isn't neaded, just delete it.
Convert the parent zone to be AD-integrated by checking the checkbox in type dialog of zone properties that it shall be stored in AD.
If child domain is in same AD, there's no nead to have it as its own zone. Create the subdomain as new domain inside the same zone.