Question : Create a DNS record

How do I create a dns record at my isp server to point to a local server that will use remote file sharing and exchange mail.  To do list on SBS 2003 in the email and internet setup requests that the isp provide me with a dns address record to point to the web server and to change the mx record to point to the same server.  Well the isp is not going to provide this.  I have to modify the dns setup to accomodate these actions.  The isp is networksolutions.  After talking to networksolutions, I am as confused as ever.  I need detail.  

Answer : Create a DNS record

Yes, to reiterate what I said earlier, your DNS records will only point to your EXTERNAL IP addresses. Your firewall does the translation, by IP and port, to your internal server(s). Your internal server name and domain name are irrelevant in this scenario.

Whoever hosts your domain name, getconnected.com, is where you need to create all of your records. As wuttuptae said, you can name your records whatever you want.