1. You use 2 SMTP connectors:
http://www.amset.info/exchange/smtp-connector.asphttp://www.microsoft.com/downloads/details.aspx?FamilyID=C092B7A7-9034-4401-949C-B29D47131622&displaylang=en2. Incoming mail can be handled by 2 different MX pointers, primary with a low value (high priority) and the second for the alternate route.