g729 is a highly compressed codec and can have issues with DTMF. Can you eliminate g729 and test?
[sip_proxy1]
type=peer
context=stations
host=81.201.82.112
dtmfmode=rfc2833
relaxdtmf=yes
rfc2833compensate=yes
disallow=all
allow=ulaw
allow=alaw
;allow=g729
canreinvite=no